I’ll be real. I wanted my boobs to look smaller. Not gone—just…quieter. I’m a 34G most days. On my period, I go up a cup. Shirts pulled weird. My back got sore by noon. Running? Bounce city.
So I spent a year testing stuff. Bras, clothes, food changes, workouts. A doctor chat too. Some things helped a lot. Some things were a big nope. Here’s my honest take, with real things I used and what they did for me. I also got inspired by another detailed breakdown of breast-minimizing tricks which gave me a few early ideas to test.
Quick truth check
- You can’t pick one body part and make only that shrink. I tried. No luck.
- You can make them look smaller. A lot smaller, some days.
- Comfort matters. If it hurts to breathe, it’s not worth it.
You know what? Small changes stacked up for me. Little wins.
Things that did change my size a bit
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Gentle weight loss: I lost 12 pounds over 5 months. Slow and boring, but my boobs dropped about one cup. My under-bust stayed the same. My shirts fit flatter. I ate more protein, fewer sugary snacks, and walked after dinner. Nothing fancy.
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Salt and period swell: Right before my period, I used to puff up. My boobs got tender and bigger. Cutting salty takeout for two days helped the bloat. I also wore a softer bra that week.
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Posture: When my shoulders rolled in, my chest looked rounder. When I pulled my ribs up, chin level, it looked smaller. It’s tiny, but it shows in photos.
Bras that actually made them look smaller (mini reviews)
I paid for all of these. I wore each for at least a month. If you want an expert-curated short list before spending money, I found Harper’s Bazaar’s best minimizer bras for large breasts article super handy for cross-checking features like band stretch and cup depth.
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Wacoal Visual Effects Minimizer (34G)
- Look: Down about 1 inch under my T-shirts. Smooth, no lines.
- Feel: Light, no squish. Good for work days.
- Gripe: Band ran tight at first. It relaxed after 3 washes.
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Bali Passion for Comfort Minimizer (34DDD sister size)
- Look: Almost as flat as Wacoal, a bit more round.
- Feel: Soft straps. Good price.
- Gripe: Cup edge showed under thin tops.
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Enell High Impact Sports Bra (size 2)
- Look: Very flat. Jacket closed easier over it.
- Feel: Zero bounce on runs. Great for spin class.
- Gripe: Front hooks take practice. Not cute, but works.
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SheFit Ultimate Sports Bra (size M Luxe)
- Look: Compressed, but not pancake-flat like Enell.
- Feel: Adjustable straps are a win. I liked it for strength days.
- Gripe: Velcro can rub if you don’t line it up right.
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Natori minimizer (Pure Luxe) (34G)
- Look: Natural shape, a hair smaller than Wacoal on me.
- Feel: Very comfy fabric.
- Gripe: Pricey. But it held up after lots of washes.
Tip from a fitter at Nordstrom: Try sister sizes. I ended up in a 34G or 36F in some brands. Wild, but it worked.
Binding: I tried it once, with care
I tested an Underworks binder under a bridesmaid dress. It made me look two sizes smaller. It also made deep breathing hard after a few hours.
What I learned:
- Don’t layer two tight bras. I got a rib ache and a rash once. Not smart.
- If you try a binder, keep it to short windows. No sleeping in it. Check your skin.
- If you feel numb or light-headed, take it off. No event is worth that.
I almost wrote “never again.” But for that one dress, for four hours, it did the job. Then I went back to my minimizer bras.
Clothes that trick the eye (and feel good)
These little swaps helped me the same day.
- V-necks that aren’t too low. They break up the front and look softer.
- Matte fabrics. Shiny tops make everything look bigger. Ask me how I know.
- Small prints, not giant flowers.
- Structured layers: a blazer with a bit of shape. My H&M black blazer (size M) is my secret weapon.
- Skip bulky chest pockets.
- Long necklaces? They can point straight to your chest. I learned the hard way. I swap to a short pendant.
For a deeper dive into dressing techniques, Zizzi Fashion’s practical guide on how to make your breasts appear smaller breaks down neckline geometry, fabric weight, and pattern scale in a way that pairs perfectly with the tips above.
Bonus hack: I played with a free outfit mock-up tool at Covermaker to preview how certain necklines would drape on a body similar to mine before clicking “buy.”
Random, but hair matters too. When I wore my hair up high, my chest looked more “front and center.” A low bun balanced things out. The day I made rosemary water for my hair I noticed the extra volume framed my shoulders in a way that actually balanced my chest.
Workouts that helped the look (not magic, but real)
No, chest presses did not melt my boobs. But a stronger back and chest pulled my shoulders wide and lifted everything. It looked smaller from the side.
My simple plan, three days a week:
- Dumbbell bench press: 3 sets of 10
- Seated row or band row: 3 sets of 12
- Dead bug or bird dog: 3 sets of 8 per side
- Plank: 3 rounds of 20–30 seconds
I kept it easy. I wore Enell on run days, SheFit on lift days. Less bounce, less soreness. Win-win.
What didn’t work for me
- “Shrink tea” and weird gummies. My body said no, and my wallet cried—plus the time I tried making my own essential oils was messy and equally pointless.
- Wearing two tight sports bras all day. I got red marks and a headache. Not worth it.
- Only chest workouts. My size didn’t change. My posture did. That part helped.
I also tried cutting coffee. It didn’t change my size. It just made me grumpy. So I brought coffee back. Balance, right?
Doctor chat and surgery thoughts
I did a consult with a board-certified plastic surgeon. We talked about reduction surgery. He measured me, showed scar patterns, and explained risks like loss of nipple feeling, trouble nursing, and healing time. He also checked my back pain notes and bra grooves. Insurance rules were a maze.
I chose not to do it—for now. A close friend did, and she’s happy. If you consider it, see a real surgeon, ask a ton of questions, and plan time off. It’s a big choice. I’m not your doctor, so please talk to yours.
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My “make them look smaller today” checklist
- Minimizer bra that fits snug but comfy
- Matte, simple top (no chest pockets)
- V-neck or open collar
- Light posture check: ribs up, shoulders soft
- Simple necklace, not long
- If running: Enell or SheFit and call it a day
Final thought (and a tiny pep talk)
I still have big boobs. Some days I want them smaller. Some days I like the curve. Both can be true.
What helped most was fit. The right bra, the right top, and a bit of strength work. None of it was flashy. It just made daily life easier. And that, for me, was the goal.
If you try any of these, start gentle. Test one change at a time. Be kind to your body while you learn what helps. And if